Jake's surgery is late Friday morning.
He will stay overnight in the hospital in OKC and recuperate for at least 3 weeks.
The doctors say he will be in a lot of pain and confused about the new palate in his mouth.
Please pray that the attachment bonds we've made in the past four months will be enough to sustain him through this tough time.
It is so hard knowing our sweet, little boy who is sleeping like an angel right now will be in so much pain this time tomorrow and be clueless as to why.
This love God has blessed us with toward this little boy, whom we've only known by heart for less than a year and in the flesh for just more than four months, simply is amazing. We didn't know it was possible to love this much.
Kevin and Violet
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Monday, February 16, 2009
The sweet things of life ...
Jake was eating strawberries (they were huge! and a gift from Grandma and Grandpa) and chocolate (a gift from Grandma) Monday morning as a sort-of after-breakfast dessert.
He had a big day with his great aunt and uncle and his cousins Sunday (thanks for the trampoline fun Aly!), and we delivered Grandma's dog Copper home. Lots of fun, but it was a long day, and we forgot the camera.
We did have it Monday morning though.
Here's what our guy thinks about his Valentine's weekend treats.
I can't believe my parents make me eat this stuff:
I'm going to get you Strawberry:
Hee, hee, hee. Just foolin.' OK, this is how I really feel about strawberries and chocolate:
He had a big day with his great aunt and uncle and his cousins Sunday (thanks for the trampoline fun Aly!), and we delivered Grandma's dog Copper home. Lots of fun, but it was a long day, and we forgot the camera.
We did have it Monday morning though.
Here's what our guy thinks about his Valentine's weekend treats.
I can't believe my parents make me eat this stuff:
I'm going to get you Strawberry:
Hee, hee, hee. Just foolin.' OK, this is how I really feel about strawberries and chocolate:
Sunday, February 15, 2009
What's that scar?
As Jake was getting his first haircut Saturday, the stylist stopped at one point and said "Look's like he's got quite a scar here."
What? Scar? I thought we had looked him over pretty well from head to toe. Did we miss something? Sure enough there on the left side of his head was this inch long or so red, slightly curved streak. OMG, how could we have missed that? What is it? One of the first things that ran through my mind was Jeff Gammage's book "China Ghosts." If you have read it you know what I mean. If you haven't, just after Jeff and his wife got their daughter they noticed some terrible scarring on the side of her head. At that point, they had just received her, and instead of crying she was one of the babies that shut down, leading them to wonder if the scars they saw meant something was wrong with her. Thankfully for them she was fine, but they never did find out what happened to her to cause the scars.
Anyway, all this ran through my head in a matter of seconds. I couldn't see what she was talking about at first, but as the stylist and I looked closer we realized it was ink!
Jake had been coloring with his Crayola Pip-Squeaks washable markers earlier in the day. At one point, he had tucked one behind his ear. LOL. The "scar" was just Jake accidentally marking on himself. Then, as we turned him around to cut the hair on the other side of his head more marks showed up. This time they were purple marks behind his right ear from another of his markers.
Whew!
Kevin
What? Scar? I thought we had looked him over pretty well from head to toe. Did we miss something? Sure enough there on the left side of his head was this inch long or so red, slightly curved streak. OMG, how could we have missed that? What is it? One of the first things that ran through my mind was Jeff Gammage's book "China Ghosts." If you have read it you know what I mean. If you haven't, just after Jeff and his wife got their daughter they noticed some terrible scarring on the side of her head. At that point, they had just received her, and instead of crying she was one of the babies that shut down, leading them to wonder if the scars they saw meant something was wrong with her. Thankfully for them she was fine, but they never did find out what happened to her to cause the scars.
Anyway, all this ran through my head in a matter of seconds. I couldn't see what she was talking about at first, but as the stylist and I looked closer we realized it was ink!
Jake had been coloring with his Crayola Pip-Squeaks washable markers earlier in the day. At one point, he had tucked one behind his ear. LOL. The "scar" was just Jake accidentally marking on himself. Then, as we turned him around to cut the hair on the other side of his head more marks showed up. This time they were purple marks behind his right ear from another of his markers.
Whew!
Kevin
Our first big boy haircut
Jake and I went Saturday to get his first official haircut since he's been home with us. We've given him a trim before and he had haircuts in China (everyone remembers the pics of him shaved bald except for his little tuft of hair in front), but this was his first big boy haircut.
Of course, he fell asleep coming into town, and when we got to Pro Cuts he woke up and wondered where we were. It's a place he hasn't seen before. We went in and he was very quiet, just looking around at everything, trying to soak it all in. As we were taking our coats off, another customer, a young woman, remarked about how cute he is. We get that a lot! LOL
As we sat there waiting our turn, he didn't make a peep. Just sat there on my lap looking around. I asked him "Do you want to get a haircut?" and he nodded solemnly. A little later, I asked him again and he nodded again. Just before our turn came, I asked him one last time and got another solemn nod.
When it came his turn, the kind woman who cut his hair decided we should try just him in a booster seat. Well, that didn't go so well. As soon as I set him down on it he started to cry - the first sounds he had made since we went it. So, we ended up with me sitting down and him on my lap. (Sorry, but since it was just us, we didn't have a camera person, so no photos of the actual haircut).
He did really well after that. Not another peep out of him, and the stylist was so good to him, telling him what a big boy he was. In the end, he got a nice trim and a sucker.
Here are a couple of photos to show his haircut off. It was hard to get him to pose today, he wasn't in a posing mood, which is kind of unusual for him.
Of course, he fell asleep coming into town, and when we got to Pro Cuts he woke up and wondered where we were. It's a place he hasn't seen before. We went in and he was very quiet, just looking around at everything, trying to soak it all in. As we were taking our coats off, another customer, a young woman, remarked about how cute he is. We get that a lot! LOL
As we sat there waiting our turn, he didn't make a peep. Just sat there on my lap looking around. I asked him "Do you want to get a haircut?" and he nodded solemnly. A little later, I asked him again and he nodded again. Just before our turn came, I asked him one last time and got another solemn nod.
When it came his turn, the kind woman who cut his hair decided we should try just him in a booster seat. Well, that didn't go so well. As soon as I set him down on it he started to cry - the first sounds he had made since we went it. So, we ended up with me sitting down and him on my lap. (Sorry, but since it was just us, we didn't have a camera person, so no photos of the actual haircut).
He did really well after that. Not another peep out of him, and the stylist was so good to him, telling him what a big boy he was. In the end, he got a nice trim and a sucker.
Here are a couple of photos to show his haircut off. It was hard to get him to pose today, he wasn't in a posing mood, which is kind of unusual for him.
Monday, February 9, 2009
Wild Wild West Jake
Since watching "Elmo's Wild Wild West" (numerous times), Jake's newest game is to get in his wagon and head off with various stuffed animals in tow. So guess where he headed after bathtime tonight?
Howdy Ma'am. Real cowboys wear their hats backward
Head 'em up, move 'em out
Jake can't show his face. He's a wanted man: Wanted for bedtime!
Mickey Mouse Club was taken, so Jake opted for the Dirty Sock Gang (see above photos)
Sometimes a cowboy has to pull his own wagon
Howdy Ma'am. Real cowboys wear their hats backward
Head 'em up, move 'em out
Jake can't show his face. He's a wanted man: Wanted for bedtime!
Mickey Mouse Club was taken, so Jake opted for the Dirty Sock Gang (see above photos)
Sometimes a cowboy has to pull his own wagon
Sunday, February 8, 2009
Salt of the earth
Kevin and Jacob and I decided to get out for the afternoon and visit nearby Salt Plains.
It was a little bit of a trip, so Jake had his nap in the car seat after church and fellowship dinner before we went on the walking trail.
Baba and I went so far that we decided it would be just as well to push on rather than backtrack. It was quite the walk, carrying the Little Man part way.
Unfortunately there was not a lot of wildlife. Usually the place is teeming with birds and wildlife, but this is the fewest fowl we've seen. But it is the middle of winter, although by the warm temperatures we've been having lately you wouldn't know it.
We saw an armadillo, ducks, geese, deer and 3 humans. Jake swung in our arms, jumped, made his own tracks in the dirt, rode Baba's and Mama's shoulders and made a lot of goofy faces.
It was a great day.
OK, I'm not sure about all this walking stuff:
Jake was fascinated with the water:
There are the ducks:
A closer look:
OK, so where did you say the car was?
Now this is more like it. This walkin' stuff ain't so bad:
Just because Mama really liked this photo:
Jake's first ride on Mama's shoulders. Hair is a hazard:
Oh thank goodness, the car. That was a long walk:
Bye, bye:
It was a little bit of a trip, so Jake had his nap in the car seat after church and fellowship dinner before we went on the walking trail.
Baba and I went so far that we decided it would be just as well to push on rather than backtrack. It was quite the walk, carrying the Little Man part way.
Unfortunately there was not a lot of wildlife. Usually the place is teeming with birds and wildlife, but this is the fewest fowl we've seen. But it is the middle of winter, although by the warm temperatures we've been having lately you wouldn't know it.
We saw an armadillo, ducks, geese, deer and 3 humans. Jake swung in our arms, jumped, made his own tracks in the dirt, rode Baba's and Mama's shoulders and made a lot of goofy faces.
It was a great day.
OK, I'm not sure about all this walking stuff:
Jake was fascinated with the water:
There are the ducks:
A closer look:
OK, so where did you say the car was?
Now this is more like it. This walkin' stuff ain't so bad:
Just because Mama really liked this photo:
Jake's first ride on Mama's shoulders. Hair is a hazard:
Oh thank goodness, the car. That was a long walk:
Bye, bye:
Monday, February 2, 2009
Woo Hoo! We're better!
Jake is a lot better now. His fever is gone, he's sleeping better and he's eating again! Thanks to everyone for your concern.
He's still got a cough, so we are continuing the nebulizer treatment. But it sure is good to have our little man back!
Kevin
He's still got a cough, so we are continuing the nebulizer treatment. But it sure is good to have our little man back!
Kevin
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