Saturday, May 22, 2010

A hunt for buffalo

Jake has seen a lot in his 18 months as an Oklahoman, but yesterday Kevin and I were able to introduce him to one of our favorite places — Tallgrass Prairie near Pawhuska. We love nature and history, so parks and preserves are great places to visit. This gem has a herd of buffalo that in previous times has been right alongside and upon the roadway, making viewing of the creatures optimal without leaving the comfort, and safety, of an automobile (nothing like having the roadway blocked by bison crossing). As we drove into the preserve, we saw some buffalo off in the distance, and Jake was excited. Finally, we came across a handful near the road, with one guy right alongside scratching his neck on a post. As expected, and hoped for, Jake was thrilled. We picnicked at the preserve, where we saw buffalo walking single-file along a hill in the distance, walked the prairie trails and even visited the headquarters, which has been closed before, as it is operated on volunteer time. There were some nifty bones (comparisons of buffalo to cows are awesome) and Jake was enamored by an armadillo shell. As we drove the bison loop, we were disappointed there were not anymore buffalo. We finally gave up, but as we left the park, grateful for one encounter, we finally saw several others (albeit not the big herd we've seen in the past) all gathered at the entrance close to the road. Jake loved watching them (especially when nature called. LOL). It was a great day.

Jake's first close-up encounter with a buffalo:



Time for lunch:



Man, I'm hungry as a buffalo:



Buffalo:









Getting a good, safe look:



Watching the bathroom habits of buffalo is good times:



Jake jumping (We think Violet's nose pushed something on the camera to mess the settings up, but we liked this photo despite its being dark):



Jake in the flowers:



Jake in the flowers some more:



Jake: No more in the flowers Mom:



I'm going back to the car:



Bye:

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Because I missed you

What a wonderful Mother's Day I have had today. First, I received an awesome homemade card and a watch from Jake, and then we went to church and enjoyed another Mother's Day with Kevin's mom, or Mama Sue, as she is known since Jake came into our lives.
After a yummy potluck dinner at church it was on to see my mom, Mama Sherry, and pizza for supper. We stopped off along the highway for ice cream at Dairy Queen.
When we were going home, it was dark, and the talk turned to past Mother's Days since I became a mom.
I told Jake this was our second Mother's Day together and my third Mother's Day since I've known he was my son. I told him the first Mother's Day he still was in China, and we were ready to come to get him, but the governments wouldn't let us yet.
"I know," Jake said, "and I cried."
"You did?" I asked, the same time Kevin said, "You cried?"
"Yeah," Jake said, "because I missed you."
WOW. Jake doesn't talk about his feelings much, and while I know he really didn't cry because he missed us (before he knew us), it still spoke volumes about his depth of feeling for us now.
Yeah, it was a great Mother's Day.
Violet

Saturday, May 8, 2010

Happy Mother's Day



This is one of my favorite photos of Violet and Jake.

It was taken just a couple of days after we were united with Jake in China. We were driving somewhere on a sightseeing trip.

You can see the love in Violet's eyes for her new son. And, you can see how comfortable Jake had already become with her. There's nothing better than falling asleep on your mommy's lap.

Happy Mother's Day Violet.

Love,

Kevin

Monday, April 26, 2010

Having a ball ... a bowling ball that is!

If you saw the teaser photo at the end of our last post, you've figured out we went bowling after our trip to Salt Plains.

Jake had a blast. He bowled. He played games in the arcade that dispense tickets when you win that you can redeem for valuable prizes (that's cheap plastic trinkets to you and me. LOL). No matter, though, they were treasures to Jake.

You gotta get your ball to the lane. It's an 8-pounder he handled like a champ.



Jake's first ball ever heads down the lane. He's got pretty good form.



Watching it head to the pins.



Take that you pins!



Another perfect ball.



Look at that score. Jake did pretty good for the first time out. Notice the spare he picked up in the third frame. Mommy and Daddy, though, could have used some help. Maybe we should have used the bumpers, too.



Jake wanted to play a driving game, so Daddy worked the gas while Jake steered.




Let's just say Jake's bowling is better than his driving! If you look at the screen on the previous picture, our car is airborne!



Tickets! These are just a few Jake won.

Saturday, April 24, 2010

Birding and heritage festival

Saturday Jake and Kevin usually bach it, but Violet took off from work and the family headed to Salt Plains Wildlife Refuge for the annual birding and heritage festival. The refuge offers hands-on lessons about animals and habitats. We went north of our mark to start at Byron fish hatchery and watchable wildlife area where they were teaching kids to build birdhouses.

Jake was ready to do his part on the family birdhouse:



Proudly carrying the finished project, which we got to take home to put up, as Meredith, who helped us with our project, watches:



Then it was on to the refuge, where we saw animal skulls, felt animal skins and learned about buffalo and reptiles. Then Jake had to make tracks ... literally:



He got to make an edible wetland in which the bedrock was two vanilla wafers, the subsoil appeared to be Cocoa Crunch, the muck or mud was chocolate pudding, the water was blue-colored whipped topping, the plants were straight pretzels for cattails and the animals were gummy frogs:



And, of course, the fun part is that it is edible:



There were some exhibits that definitely were better off behind glass, like the rattlesnake. Western diamondbacks always draw Jake's interest:



The day started out promising, with the sun peeking through the window, and even as the clouds gathered and we left the house we were confident a 30 percent chance of rain would not be an issue. Well, 30 percent turned into 100 percent for us. We kept thinking it would be a sprinkle, and it would turn into a downpour, and surely it had blown over, and it would pour again. Thank goodness for tents, but Jake pushed the limits of staying dry. Rain, rain, go away ...:



We had a great time, despite the rain, and the Oklahoma City Zoomobile visited in the outdoor classroom at the refuge, which thankfully was covered. This month was the anniversary of the land run that settled the Oklahoma City area, so we learned about what the settlers had to deal with in the pioneer days. We also learned of animals that might have prowled the land in those days, like the owl, which Jake learned has eyes that won't move, so the bird compensates by moving its head.



He also learned the owl has ears under its eyes, and a cupped face that enhances sound like cupping your hands around your ears:



He also got a look at an armadillo, which admittedly he can see in his backyard, but this species hails from South America:



The zoo representative, Amy Stevens, set the armadillo down so it would walk. Come over here Dillo:



He also was introduced to the box turtle:



It was wet, but we got to do everything we set out to do. People often tell us Jake is so cute, and today was no exception. Our patented answer is we can take no credit for his genetics, but we can take credit for the smiles, and this one just had to be shared:



This is how the afternoon ended. Perfection:



But our day didn't end there. We had more fun in the evening, but we'll save it for a later post, as this one had gone on long enough. LOL We will leave you with a sneak preview, however, of a first for Jake:

Monday, April 5, 2010

April brings showers of blessings!

It's been 18 months since we met the Little Man face to face — ours excited and nervous, I'm sure, and his terrified.
Our son went from tears of mourning, missing the people who filled the first two years of his life and wondering who this strange couple was, in those first few days to total excitement when he sees his Mommy and Daddy now.
This is such an exciting month — almost as exciting as October, but not quite. This is the month of our original log-in date with China and the month we first saw Jake, as we gathered around our computer at work because we couldn't wait to get home.
It always will be the six-month marks for our Gotcha Day and his birthday.
We are blessed beyond words. We can't wait to see what the next 18 months bring.

Sunday, April 4, 2010

Happy Easter

Sunday was a great day. We celebrated Jesus rising from the grave, then we had some good family fun.

Jake checking out his basket of goodies. Hey, it's candy.



After a wonderful church service, the kids had an Easter egg hunt.
We're a small church, so there aren't many kids, but they had a great time.

The boys, Jacob, Oaklee and Gavin, get ready to go.



Here's one.



Gotta, go. There are more eggs to find!



Mmmmmmmm, chocolate.



After church, we went to Kevin's parents' house for Easter dinner and more egg hunting and other fun, including lots of tricycle riding and some chalk drawing.

Come out, come out wherever you are eggs.



Is there one here?



Here's one!



Mmmmmm egg.



What's a few crumbs among friends?



Artist at work.



Adding Daddy's glasses.